What happened to all the Men???

Okay now i have been thinking what happened to all the men. I keep coming in contact with what i call Lames. At first they seem like Mr.Right then after three months the true person comes out. Why is it that when you meet some1 new you meet their representative. I would really like to meet someone who's the same a year from now. I always make it a habit to be myself at all times. Men (hint)stop being pretenders!!!!