WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT????

OK, THEIRS SOMETHING THATS BEEN ON MY MIND FOR SOME TIME NOW. WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT? I WON'T SAY MEN BECAUSE WOMEN STEP OUT JUST AS MUCH AS MEN. ALTHOUGH WOMEN TEND TO STEP OUT BECAUSE OF EMOTIONAL REASONS MOST OF THE TIME. MEN, I NEED TO KNOW WHAT IS THE REAL REASON. IF THERE IS ANY REASON AT ALL. IS IT BECAUSE THE COUPLE IN THE RELATIONSHIP GETS TOO COMFORTABLE OR GETS COMPLACENT IN THE RELATIONSHIP? WHATS KEEPING IT TOGETHER? SOMETIMES IT TURNS INTO BUSINESS CONTRACT OR PARTNERS. FINANCIAL SECURITY, IS THE REASON THAT BINDS THEM TOGETHER. MAYBE, EVEN KIDS IS THE BARRIER. WHAT HAPPENED TO ALL THE SPARKS AND EXCITEMENT IN THE BEGINNING. WHERE DO THEY GO? THEY USUALLY DIE DOWN, AS SOON AS THE KNOT IS TIED OR KIDS COME INTO THE PICTURE. THAT SHOULDN'T BE A REASON TO STOP THE ACTION. THERE SHOULD BE AN ARRANGEMENT TO KEEP THE FLAMES GOING. USUALLY IF SOMETHING IS LACKING IN THE HOUSE, U CAN BET THE ONE THATS LACKING WILL SEEK ELSEWHERE. THEN THERES THE ONES THAT JUST CAN'T HELP IT. THERE'S ABSOLUTELY NO REASON WHY THEY STEP OUT.IT'S JUST A LEVEL OF EXCITEMENT THAT COMES WITH CHEATING. THERES SO MANY KINDS OF RELATIONSHIPS IN TODAY'S WORLD IT'S A BIT AMUSING. LIKE I SAID BEFORE THERE SHOULD BE AN ARRANGEMENT BETWEEN BOTH PERSONS INVOLVED. SOMETHING LIKE, HOW DO WE MAKE IT WORK? HOW DO WE GET IT BACK? OPEN RELATIONSHIPS, NOW I KINDDA UNDERSTAND IT A LITTLE. ATLEAST IT CUT'S DOWN ON THE CHEATING LOL. IS IT REALLY POSSIBLE TO LOVE MORE THAN ONE PERSON ETERNALLY? WELL, I SAY YES AND NO. I KNOW THAT'S NOT REALLY AN ANSWER BUT IT'S MY BLOG. YOU CAN LOVE EACH PERSON FOR DIFFERENT REASONS. YOU CAN LOVE YOUR KID'S ALL EQUALLY THE SAME BUT YOU LOVE EACH FOR DIFFERENT REASONS. NOW WHY IS IT ANY DIFFERENT WHEN LOVING A MATE. SO MANY THINGS TO THINK ABOUT. EXAMPLE, I LOVE MY WIFE BECAUSE SHE KEEPS ME BALANCED AND TAKES CARE OF HOME LIKE NO OTHER. THEN, I LOVE MY GIRL BECAUSE SHE'S FUN EXCITING LOVES ME AND TAKES CARE OF ME. HE LOVES EACH EQUALLY BUT FOR DIFFERENT REASONS. I JUST NEED CLARITY ON WHY AND WHAT DOES IT DO FOR A PERSON TO CHEAT.